Until I read Neill's book, 'Summerhill,' I thought there were only two ways to bring up children, either with authoritarian discipline or with permissiveness. Either way, hopefully, applied with love. Now I know there is a third way: teaching a child self*regulation, not by coercion or by abandoning discipline, but by freedom with responsibility.
在我读过尼尔的书《夏默山》之前，我认为只有两种方式可以养育孩子，无论是专制还是宽容. 无论哪种方式，希望都可以用爱来应用. 现在我知道了第三种方法：教孩子自我调节，不是通过强迫或放弃纪律，而是通过有责任感的自由.