芭芭拉·戴明

    芭芭拉·戴明是美国女权主义者,提倡非暴力的社会变革。

芭芭拉·戴明(Barbara Deming)名言

All prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.

迄今为止,我们社会上所有的监狱都把人关进监狱,因为任何人都不应该被关进监狱。

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Vengeance is not the point; change is. But the trouble is that in most people's minds the thought of victory and the thought of punishing the enemy coincide.

复仇不是重点;改变就是。但问题是,在大多数人的心目中,胜利的思想和惩罚敌人的思想是一致的。

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The longer we listen to one another - with real attention - the more commonality we will find in all our lives. That is, if we are careful to exchange with one another life stories and not simply opinions.

我们倾听彼此的时间越长,注意力越集中,我们在生活中就会发现更多的共同点。也就是说,如果我们小心地互相交流生活故事,而不是简单地交换意见。

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Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.

惩罚不能治愈灵魂,只能击溃灵魂。

芭芭拉·戴明

Think first of the action that is right to take, think later about coping with one's fears.

先考虑应该采取的行动,然后再考虑如何应对自己的恐惧。

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After the revolution, it might very well remain necessary to place people where they could not do harm to others. But the one under restraint should be cut off from the rest of society as little as possible.

革命之后,很可能仍然有必要把人们安置在不能伤害他人的地方。但受约束的人应该尽可能少地与社会其他人隔绝。

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After the revolution, let us hope, prisons simply would not exist - if by prisons we mean places that could be experienced by the men and women in them at all as every place that goes by that name now is bound to be experienced.

革命之后,让我们希望,监狱根本就不会存在——如果说监狱,我们指的是监狱里的男人和女人可以体验到的地方,就像现在每一个以这个名字命名的地方都一定会体验到的那样。

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I think the only choice that will enable us to hold to our vision... is one that abandons the concept of naming enemies and adopts a concept familiar to the nonviolent tradition: naming behavior that is oppressive.

我认为唯一能让我们坚持我们的愿景的选择。。。它摒弃了命名敌人的概念,采用了非暴力传统所熟悉的概念:命名压迫性行为。

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